Do NOT do this if you're bluffing, Gr8, or if you're doing anything OTHER than TRULY being ready to move on, one way or another.
It's like when I made the very painful (and prayerful) decision to finally file for divorce when my wife was having her affair. It's the ultimate "card" to play, and yet you can't do it to play a card. It has to be what you have truly, ultimately, arrived at.
