New to the Forum - my story

[Keeter]

I believe setting r spouses free is the only chance we have to save r marriage. The begging and pleading I did just pushed him further away

It is the Last Resort stage, as it feels and as I am told. It certainly isn't easy at times..we just need to focus on the fact it can only get better.

Hang in there...we are in a great place with support and advice to get through this.

[hbm]

Yes, you r right. It certainly can't get much worse. Atleast from where I stand. There is only one way to go and that is up.

Its like I know exactly what I need to do, but it is much easier said than done.

The support here is a life saver and helps keep me on track. I am hoping it gets easier as the days go on. I am certainly doing a lot better today than I was on 7/24 when I got hit with this bomb. I try to keep in mind how far I have come thus far and that hopefully a month from now I will be even further along in the healing process. And stronger and have even more of a life of my own. And actually enjoying it- that is key. I am ready to be happy on my own again.

Sounds like u r well on ur way too so best of luck and keep enjoying the picnic.