40, you are right. It won't be easy. But I find that for me, identifying one thing at a time and letting it go is what works for me. For example, identify that you will have to share the kids and let that go. Be sure to understand that you are going to be the stable parent and to act accordingly. It won't be easy.
Set them up and knock them down. You didn't ask for this, but you are here and need to deal with it. Do so with grace and dignity. Take the high road. You will be glad you did.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
