I don't lay low??? I meant lay low - as in not persue her this week. Just leave her alone and see if she deicdes to come over on Sunday on her own. How then do I attract her, without persuing? I get the boring thing, but she needs to be comfortable around me to start being around me again. No?
I will grasp at anything. It keeps my hope alive. The reality is that my wife left me 8 months ago, is living happily on her own, and yesterday clealry stated she is never coming back and our marriage is over and I choose to focus on the fact that she came to house, hugged me and gave me a peck on the lips.
