Wife states she is not in love with me anymore!

[HopelessInLove]

I listened to my W and am giving her the space she wanted before.
I realized that I may be trying to change someone who does not want to change. If that is the case then I need to figure out what will be best for me and make me the happiest.
After asking her to define what she means by loving me but not loving me. She could not give me the answer.
I felt that I would continue to be in her thinking space. I told her that it is my decision to give her that space and to move out.
I felt at that point I could think more clearly and then put more effort into my children and myself.
I was assertive and told my W how I will handle the children.
I finally feel that I am controlling my own situation.

HIL