I might have a reason to put my foot down.
Just received a letter from WH addressed to our 3month old, sent the day before he took the plane.
I don't even know how to describe it...It's a kind of love letter to her...about how his heart is heavy and how he will miss her, how wonderful and magical it was to meet her..how she will be in his heart forever, and how he will keep writing to his 'beautiful daughter'.

I want to vomit.
He needs a psychiatrist. He KNOWS it's me who will read them now. Not one mention of his infedelity, abandonment, or $ he will be sending so his 'darling daughter' can have a roof over her head.

Oh help!


Me 36; H 40
baby born in May
M:13, T:15
Bomb (OW): Dec 09
began DBing: Feb
WH overseas with OW
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