I know mt sitch has taken quite a turn, but in reality it is for the best right now. I think the MC is good, but for some reason your W is still in the roommate status, which is limbo for us. i FEEL better being apart from the W right now, do I miss her and the kids yes, but the tension and limbo are gone. If you read Robx thread you will see he finally almost forced her out, she wants out, go then. at some point you ned to figure it out for your sitch.
No matter what happens with my M, things are moving quick, but I am living in the now....