I just remembered something else that broke my heart tonight. W went to the bookstore today and found a book that was made for young kids on "I have two different homes". She asked me to read through it tonight before we tell our S4 tomorrow about him living in seperate homes.
I'm not sure what is going to be hardest - bomb day, moveout day, or tell S4 day that mommy and daddy are going to not be in a M anymore.
So, one other thing. Tonight after I calmed down W since she was sobbing in front of S4, we were all playing a game together. For some reason or another W asked S4 who he was going to marry. He said, "you mommy! I'm going to marry you!" She then said, "Oh I don't think that will work because I already married daddy." I can't remember how it came up but it was actually in context.
----"Et tu, Brute?"---- me:28 W:24 S4 T:6 M:4 EA Exposed: 5/21/10 Bomb: 6/20/10 (Father's Day) NC w/ OM: 7/10/10 W moved out 8/21/10 http://bit.ly/aOrZne - My sitch