40. I feel for you. It's heartbreaking and gut wrenching. But ask yourself something. Would you really want her back? That's important. If you do, you have to set the boundaries right now. I think you did that already, but are wondering if the marriage can be saved. My thoughts on that? Not by you. I know that's frustrating, but I think you did the right thing exposing the infidelity and taking a stand. Most importantly, regain your self-esteem and respect. Others will follow suit. You cannot save her from herself and you can only intervene with her and the kids if she puts them in danger. Anything else is her choice and you have to let go of it. Have your friend take the FB stuff to the lawyer so you don't have to look at it. Don't just let her go - push her away. She has a lot of changing to do before she's worthy of coming back to you. Believe that.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
