Surviving the Big D STINKS!

[newmama]

Mrs. A- I want to be happy for you! I REALLY DO! I am just so nervous for you though and confused! What is going on?

I 100000% believe that at this point, SINCE you are divorced, the DB games and stuff go out the window. The GAL is great and the 180s (as long as they are authentic) are great. But how well did the 2 of you do at addressing conflict and expressing needs, etc.?

I was thinking that conflict avoidance is something sooooo many of us on DB forum have in common. And it is not healthy for relationships. Since our spouses all left us, for some reason or another, I think we need to be tough on ourselves and say "from now on, I need to be more direct with expressing myself, and setting boundaries." (in a polite way of course).


SOOO...find out what the hell is he thinking and doing? JUST ASK and see what he says. I am so excited to hear how your date goes!!!