Alright alright alright. I get it!

But I think that maybe I went overboard today. I think maybe I was waaaaay too cold and business like. I need to read a sales book or something to figure out how to get my point across that I will not settle for less than what is fairly mine, in a "loving" way.


I do need some advice though on how to proceed with tomorrow. She is coming over to discuss the plan for custody until we get to a mediator. Couple of things I don't know are good are not - I would like some input:

- Retrouvialle, it is near me in 3 weeks. Since she is on the "i want to work on this but can't live with you" kick, should I suggest that we just work out the next 3 weeks, do NOT go to mediation, go to Ret and then comeback and decide what to do?
- MC, I told her I was interested in still going. She said she would be happy to go. I told her that I would make an appt this week. Should I? I don't see that it could hurt.
- If she brings up mediation, and wanting to go, how should I respond? What's been your experience? Should I delay, or push for it?

Last edited by john28; 08/23/10 01:51 AM.

----"Et tu, Brute?"----
me:28 W:24 S4
T:6
M:4
EA Exposed: 5/21/10
Bomb: 6/20/10 (Father's Day)
NC w/ OM: 7/10/10
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