After my wife got my bomb, and then agreed to MC, she told me the next day how scared she was. Of me. That I would "turn" on her, kick her out. That I would be mean...
Both our wives are trying to avoid reality; the more we give them what they want, the more their reality is fubar. They want it on their terms, with no pain.
Be careful...
Right on PH. that's exactly right! My W said the same things - don't "turn" on me. I'm afraid of you.
But what do we do? I'm afraid that by giving them a dose of reality it ruins any chances of repairing the M. I need some vets here that have experience with going "mean" on their spouses and seeing how that worked out.
----"Et tu, Brute?"---- me:28 W:24 S4 T:6 M:4 EA Exposed: 5/21/10 Bomb: 6/20/10 (Father's Day) NC w/ OM: 7/10/10 W moved out 8/21/10 http://bit.ly/aOrZne - My sitch
