and one other thing, the fact your son is begging and screaming for his momma and the best you can do is have her come over to calm him down shows that she is the primary care giver; and despite the he-man and duck dodgers in the 21st century making his wife pay child support BS, you really shouldn't mess with the natural course of things for your son's sake.
She didn't come over to calm him down, I could have certainly done that myself. I never portrayed to her that I wanted her to come over because he was upset. I asked her if she would like to come over because I was melty man and thouht about her emotional welfare and my sons. Probably a mistake, but I didn't do it out of fear that I couldn't handle it. I can.
It will not happen again. I see your point completely. My son needs me to bond with him and let him know that things are going to be fine. Especially if he's going to be with me 50% of the time.
Last edited by john28; 08/23/1001:39 AM.
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