Punkin I'm on board with your thinking. I don't discount what's in the books, but quite frankly taking care of two small kids, and a house designed for two caretakers leaves no time for the luxury of books. I've already let the landscaping go. I typically choose to spend the 30 minutes I sometimes get to make it to the gym.
My IC has counseled against becoming a shut-in. How do you GAL when focusing on yourself? My new life will include more friends. How do you avoid stoking her jealous fires when simply trying to make new friends?
With all thanks, Grit and Lance, I appreciate the input and suggestions, I'm just struggling with the logistical reality of being a single parent.


M / W: 43
D8
S6
M 10 years / T 13 years
W admitted EA/PA: 10.6.09
Separated in same house 10.6.09
W moved out 2.27.10