Remember, the boundaries are not to punish him - they are to protect you and the kids.
Your doing fine.
Thanks E ... it's hard, I know you know this.
And yep, need to make sure that "punishment" is not on my motivation list ... that's why I'm slowing down and getting through this week, really considering what Mach posted and getting ready for whatever comes next ...
T
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
