I want to be part of the group...

[Jstar]

I've just been emailing back and forth with someone on a dating site and really came to a conclusion. Also after having lunch with one of my best friends.

I may love my h but we are not equal in any way shape or form. The inequalities we have could have been over came, but with him not wanting to, or as i say bringing me down, i don't think it can be done.

Let's just say this. He's a high school drop out, I have a master's degree, he has a dui conviction, I have no convictions and possess a fingerprint card to be a teacher. He gets paid hourly and serves people, I get paid annually and mold the minds of our youth. I believe in having car insurance, a savings account,health insurance a retirement, college is just known to be expected for my children. He lives to get what he can get, he is not permitted to work in the usa, came into the united states illegally, has no retirement, spends money as quickly as he can drinking, gambling.

Does it make me sound snotty or stuck up, I don't think so, he just does not bring the same positive qualities to the table as i have worked so hard for.

his job history is spotty, being fired a few times, I've served 13 years in the military all honorable discharges, highly decorated veteran, he would do illegal things at his job, fixing other people's breath anyalyizers so they don't get popped when the print out goes to their parole officer. I love the police, I was one in the military, my best friends are Deputies, Sergeants, Highway patrol officers, give to charity so on and so on. He wants the charity given to him, he tries to make himself and his family qualify for state assistance, takes food stamp cards from other people so they can have cash, I'd love to have some help pay for food for my babies.

wow!