Newer Game- Moving Forward

[steady]

I agree. The motive is wrong CD. I always find when I try to do something to get a certain reaction it ends up backfiring on me. That's just my experience of life, but I can't hold anyone else to it.

My W is manipulating things and lying/fabricating to get what she wants and I hate it. In good conscience I couldn't do it myself. It just makes me go back to the beginning and all the stuff I tried to do but they all had the opposite effect. (think pleading, gifts, etc...lol)

Anyway, that's my thing. It's a bit of an experiment for me too - keep my attempts at control out of it, control me/my life, then see what happens.