t-my x has taken no responsibility for sons college. NONEand yes the stress is has been hard. i learned after his first semester that it was going to be son and i figuring things out.
i am sorry that he has to struggle trhough this with you -it will build him in a way that we could never imagine. i believe that.
i have found because x gives no support and doesn't claim him on taxes that he has done ok with financial aide because it is my income alone... is that a possiblity for you guys?
again -- i am sorry. if you can act as if he is gone in a way that there is no counting on him financially. his trips will come back to bite him .. it may not be the way we think.. but they will.
again - i am so very sorry.
M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06 Moved out 3/12/07 D final 7/30/2008 finding myself again