t-my x has taken no responsibility for sons college. NONEand yes the stress is has been hard. i learned after his first semester that it was going to be son and i figuring things out.

i am sorry that he has to struggle trhough this with you -it will build him in a way that we could never imagine. i believe that.

i have found because x gives no support and doesn't claim him on taxes that he has done ok with financial aide because it is my income alone... is that a possiblity for you guys?

again -- i am sorry. if you can act as if he is gone in a way that there is no counting on him financially. his trips will come back to bite him .. it may not be the way we think.. but they will.

again - i am so very sorry.


M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06
Moved out 3/12/07
D final 7/30/2008
finding myself again