Thanks for the words Greek - I'll agree that deep down she's doing all this "good" stuff to keep me from pursuing this with a L. She's deathly afraid I will do that. She's asked me many times I've already L'd up.
But as far as my son, he's been crying non-stop since he got here for his mother. He's broke down on the phone with her (because he asked to call her) and it breaks my heart to see him like this. He doesn't know why his mommy is home - and we still need to tell him. We plan to do it tomorrow.
I'm not letting her come for me, I just can't see my son's world rocked like this right now so soon - especially after what happened yesterday here.
Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
Originally Posted By: Greek
My prediction is she'll try to 'tag' you tonight. Brace yourself -
I agree.
I agree too. She'll probably do so knowing her. I'd be strong enough not to engage, but meh - please explain to me what it could hurt if it happened? Especially if I could remain detached? I'm not saying I will, I just want to know why not for my own information.
Because you are no where near detached.
Where is your outrage at her behavior? Why do you not see how she is playing you for a fool? Why do you avoid answering the tough questions?
Stop feeling and start thinking, it's very girly and unattractive to your wife. You don't listen to good advice.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
