Yeah! One crisis down, 999 to go. XBIL came out and fixed my air conditioner. It was pushing up to 90 in my house, so it's going to take a while to cool down.

Grit, I completely understand what you are saying, but H is unloading more and more of his responsibilities on me. Financially, emotionally, etc. Like this air conditioner bill. BIL had to replace fan motor, pay place 25.00 to open up on Sunday, it's gonna be like a $300.00 bill, and the only way I'll get him to help is through a lawyer. Same with the $1000.00 taxes due in October. How can I keep from irritating him when I have to have help with these things, and they are only fair.

I've tried to back completely away and let fate & God take a hand in H & OW's relationship. Ever since this waiver thing came up, he's just hounded me to death, and made me the enemy no matter what I do, unless I signed this legal document.

The B8tch of it is, if I have to go to court to settle with him, than I'll have to use our children as witnesses. I don't want to do that, but he'll leave me no choice.