Originally Posted By: Punkin
Crazy as it sounds, I hurt for him.


Compassion is a necessary ingredient to healing Pun.

It is good that this is coming to you and you are letting it.

Something I have come to understand with my W...

There is SO MUCH more guilt there than I ever realized.

It hurts so bad they want to run in the other direction.

Run to someone who doesn't make them feel guilty.

That is why they usually end up with someone beneath them in the emotional maturity department.

No pressure.

It will be hard for H to get over his guilt so

Do your best not to add to it. Try to understand rather than react to him.

I am getting a lot of "I can't believe what I did" from W.

At the same time I get her nailing me to the wall for the things she perceives I did to her.

In the middle somewhere is our peace Pun.

Find your middle ground and stand there.

Think of what you want to communicate. Take all the "I"'s out of it.

If this is for him make it for him.

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am