I believe women can detect when evidence is "planted" for them to discover. It's just like when the H is talking and hints about a date or some woman being interested in him. It's so darn obvious! His W knows him so well and the LBH will end up looking foolish.

I say stay away from this sort of stuff. If he is dating, the W will find out...no worries. Otherwise, be mysterious about what LBS is doing when he's GAL.

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!