I'm sorry to admit I haven't ever dropped by your thread. I guess I don't have much time and sometimes bounce over the long ones if I haven't been following from the beginnig. That is stupid. Especially since I'm always telling everyone to READ, read, read. I appreciate the post and am really sorry you are in a similar boat. I will go read your whole thread ASAP. We may become the two amigos in this. It will be good for both of us to have the other out there trying to find ways to cope and in my case anyway, you will be certain to learn lots of things not to do by the numerous mistakes I'm sure to make.
God bless.
ADAPT. OVERCOME. IMPROVISE. -Tom Highway
Me: 43 W: 40 S12 & S9 Married 17yrs Together 20yrs