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I also thought of asking W what is going on with our D if were are doing meadition still or not?


Just seems to me that puts all the cards in her hand and you are waiting around to see what she plays instead of you taking the reigns away from her.(Which may be what needs to be done.)

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The final question is if she has any second thoughts or doubts about us.


Are you saying that you would ask her if there were second thoughts or doubts?

Okay, you want to take her out for coffed.....which is extremly pursuing, IMHO. Plus, you are still asking her the pitiful questions. For a man who needs to leave her alone and take charge of his own life's destiny, I think it is a very bad idea.


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!