Sorry things didn't work out for you. Can you tell me how long your interest in intimacy was gone? And did you blame your H for that at the time? Just trying to get a woman's perspective on this whole thing that I can't fathom. Anything you could share in how you felt could possibly help me. I do believe W is in a depression, MLC, or menopause, and I don't think those things are an excuse to D and should be delt instead of throwing in the towel.