CH,

Detachment doesn't mean you stop being a caring individual. There's nothing wrong with politely inquiring about her wrist. I'd do it to a stranger. It's very easy to become confused about what you should and should not do in detachment. As Lance suggested, keep re-reading the resources. They are a great help.

ME: 54
Him: 51
M: 20 years T: 21 years
OW/New wife: 36
Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36)
Bomb: March 4, 2010
He Filed: April 28, 2010
I Contested: May 1, 2010
Standing Down: 11/24/10
Divorced : 05/04/2011