Wow, if that isn't absolute bitchy passive-aggressive bs I don't know what it! She managed to tell Tawny she got married without 'telling' Tawny she got married.
And WTF on the new hubby not living there half the time??? I mean I know that as a divorced woman with kids I will have some hurdles to navigate in a new relationship, but I cannot imagine marrying someone and then not living with them? Wack-O batchitt off the charts...