Again Jon your boundaries are concerned over the mundane and namby-pamby over those that matter.
The counselor will tell you what? you have communication and attraction issues? and your wife acts like an immature girl? We can tell you that for free. And "no more talk of..."... Talk is cheap. Threats of divorce are weak.
I am very surprised you are not more concerned as to why your wife would kill your unborn child without telling you? And what actually has been taking place over that cell phone and those secret meetings with this school kid.
