I have been very good not contacting her at all. She wrote back, with less guilt and stated her words in the text a little more friendly. She keeps writing how If i need help when the kids are with me, then she should be the first one I call to take the kids? and on and on. What is the point of checking my temp now? I am not fighting her, I am not pursueing her, I am not going to contest the D, I am letting go.
I have told her I am fine, and agreee we shouldnt be together. It seems she is angry because she refers to me hanging out with friends qute a bit in her texts and it has nothing to do with the kids and schedules.