you are the only one that knows your h. What works for one does not work for the other. You still have to follow your heart.
In my opinion. I only want my ex back if he makes the initiative. He has to show the effort and the want to come back or I don't think he will stay. We cannot afford to go through the pain of our h's walking out again. We have to protect ourselves as much as possible.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
