The thing is, even if you arne't cheating and you just leave the hint of it, that's more likley to encourage your wife to continue... It MIGHT scare her into coming home, but I seriously doubt that would be the result.
I am all for leaving indicators women are INTERESTED in YOU... But leaving an indicator that you are RESPONDING I think is a bit over the line...
You want your wife to be worried yes, you want her to think you aren't there at her beck and call.. you WANT her to realize she can't have her cake and eat it too...
But I think there are less drastic tactics to use at this point... Leaving indicators you are actualy taking on a lover yourself is an extreme tacic I would use in only the most desperate cases...
That's like an all or nothing gamble using that tactic...
It CAN work, but you have to be aware of the potental risks you take in heading that route.
I am lurking, but you are getting some great input here so I don't have much to add to it... Wonka, Puppy, etc, everyone is right on top of this one... Great stuff
