W has been silent from friday until this morning. She called first and i didnt answer, she sent a text which I waited about an hour to reply. She is basically angry bc I have been hanging out with friends. I asked her why the kids have not called me in 2 days, she said you could have called them? she also said I gave you 2 chances to spend time with them, and its your fault you didnt make the effort. So I quickly replied that you cant expect me to accomadate you at the last minute to spend time with the kids because of your schedule. I simply wrote that we need to accomodate both of our schedules with the kids. She mentioned that we were getting along just fine until I started hanging out with friends. I said that has nothing to do with it, lets get the kids on a schedule that works for both of us and that will be the end of that. So she writes back and says lets both be mature and stop acting like, I cant make her life easier crap. She said we both need to work together and be mature about this. I simply wrote back, that I understand your decision, and I am fine with it, we are better not together. She constantly tries to lay the guilt trip, and says I know you dont need the constant reminder of what is going on, why does she keep playing the card" i know this isnt what you wanted? does she do this to make herself feel better? Is she trying to get a reaction out of me? That is why I wrote her, we are better not together. Maybe she will stop sending me stuff like that.
