She just thinks I'm being manipulative again and controlling and mean, or whatever. She said, "I want to come home more than anything but you will only let me come home on your condidtions and terms and you're still being manipulative and controlling, after the way you've treated me today there is NO way I could come back to that person.
If she wanted to come home, she would come home.
Often in these emotional things, the person accusing the other of something is projecting.
Listen to what she said in response to clear boundaries and conditions: you are trying to manipulate her.
She is trying to manipulate you by dangling the "I'll come home card". She is testing your resolve.
But she is still not coming home. She was doing that before there were terms and conditions. So what has changed there? Nothing.
She's on the same course she has been on, but she is trying to get something out of you. You are being manipulated if you cave into this.
There's nothing wrong with what you are asking.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
