Thanks, Lance. Detachment is tough ... GAL even tougher. All of my friends are mutual friends w/her and married. And it's tough hanging around married couples. As far as detachment, it's tough to get past the desire to take care of her. For example, she had sprained her wrist several weeks ago. It kills me to not even ask about it ... I want to take care of her ... help her with the things she's limited in doing because of the sprain. But I don't. I bite my lip, pack my kids up in the car, and move on for my time with them.
