Not sure where to start, or end. WAW?

[john28]

She keeps saying that she is so angry at the way I'm treating her. That I'm being mean and cold.

Look, W, I'm being detached. I have no emotion for you right now. I know what I want. You think you know what you want. They don't match up. I'm not angry because of that, I'm just not going to be all loving.

She just kept saying "We could do this in a loving way, why do you have to be so mean about this" when i stood my ground on not letting her come back home and saying I wanted split time.

She doesn't see that there is NO loving way to do this. I'm detached, woman. Get it? I have no love for you when it comes to my son. I want what I rightfully deserve.

She just thinks I'm being manipulative again and controlling and mean, or whatever. She said, "I want to come home more than anything but you will only let me come home on your condidtions and terms and you're still being manipulative and controlling, after the way you've treated me today there is NO way I could come back to that person. I'm so afraid of you and this person you are right now. I love you so so so much but I just can't go back to that."

I told her that she wasn't coming back to that. If she made a committment it would be different, but if she was not going to do that then I was going to remain detached. And honestly, I'd probably remain lovingly detached if she came back for a while.