Should I Tell Her to Move On???

[gr8 day 2B alive]

Oh man, just having one of those days!

First, the OW I was spending so much time with over the past few months said she didn't want to see me anymore b/c I can't commit to her 100%. She is totally right and deserves someone who can give that to her. BTW, yesterday 8/21 was when W dropped bomb on me. My friend told me next year not to leave the house and commincate with no one on 8/21. haha

I haven't given up yet on my M. At times I feel things could work out then those times I feel they can't.
I am trying to focus on the positives.

I did receive a response back from on this morning.

She asked to keep the kids next weekend to take them to the beach. Asked about the schedule for the kids when they start school and offered to help me work out the scheduling if I needed help.

She finished with:
I will call the mediator tomorrow, September 12th works for her.

At a loss right now how to proceed.

Should I suggest meeting to talk about the finances?
The more we have together the less the mediator's time we will need.

I'm missing my family right now. I know once D5 starts school it will be another change in life. I know I will be able to handle it.
Just like to share those passages of life by the kids when W.

Any words of wisdom???