Pinhead,

Lots of great advice on this thread. And I just had my first in-n-out burger, it was wonderful.

Most of what I read reminded me of "cheese-less tunnels", doing the same things/same type of things, over and over, yet expecting a different outcome. Patterns become patterns for a reason, but they are also what got us here. What is it, 21 days to break a habit, 42 days to build a new one. This is a long road, no quick fixes here, I think.

And you can survive! You will.

Dagny


Me 48, H49, M24, S14, S11
DB #1 4/2002-8/2003
Bomb #2 August 2010 & he moved out
Living with OW