This is a little hard to explain . . .My husband has always said I was stronger than he was. In fact, he once said I was so strong it was scary. Probably comes from losing my Mom at a young age. He seems upset in some way that I've "gotten" on with my life, and that I'm preventing him from "getting on" with his. I haven't "gotten on " with anything. I'm in Limboland. I just make it look easier.
We've never ever discussed if we could work it out. He has always worked off of that " not that I want your ass back" that I sent the day his OW outed him. He has less and less to do with our kids and grands. Infrequent calls. It upsets me to think that he feels this way. Crazy as it sounds, I hurt for him.
