Hey NC..

It's wonderful to see another side of you emerging.

A reputable counselor is objective whose focus is on the client's wellbeing, in this case a five year old boy who exhibits troubling behavior. Whose parents are divorced. Divorced couples are known to have difficulty working together.

At this point, it's not about your wife's backpedaling or your perceived attitude toward her boyfriend.. as you well know, it's about your son. What is best for him.

It's like arguing over who has the flyswatter when the current is taking the canoe out to sea.

Sorry to hear you're in a tough position. But I'm so glad to read your new perspective on yourself.

*hugs*