Allen, you told me so.

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I think Allen, it's too late to 'put my foot down'... but by the same token, I am hardly going to rush to reply to his enquries about bub, am I?

He wanted this all wrapped up neatly before he left me to care solo for his child..he wanted to stay friends so I would 'help' him have a long distance relationship with our 3 month old.

Well, screw that. I won't help him. I won't block him. He moved away, that's his decision. I am just going to show him with the qaulity of my replies, that I am moving on..

which is what I intend to do.

Thanks for your help, Allen. But my growing feeling is that this M probably can't, and certainly in it's current form, should not be saved.