You can decide to forgive, BD, but I doubt you will ever forget. I am worried about H being a fairweather husband, and giving you similar dramas down the track. Okay he's happy things have turned out..yeah, sure!, you have a beautiful baby and are in the 'honeymoon' stages of that and a wife that allowed him to run off and then come back despite the distress he caused you... There've been no consequences. All that was incredibly wrong and selfish of him. How has he learnt his lesson? Words, especially "sorrys" in a text, are cheap, IMHO. I want you 2 to reconcile, but I am really scared when the going gets tough or there's hard work to be done, he'll just run away again. You are worth more, and unless you show him you are worth more, he'll never fully respect you. I would say limit contact until you do MC. I mean, what have been the consequences of his actions so far? Nothing! I don't mean 'punish' him, I mean set some boundaries.
Sorry to be a bummer.
Me 36; H 40 baby born in May M:13, T:15 Bomb (OW): Dec 09 began DBing: Feb WH overseas with OW old: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2027369#Post2027369