AG, I am so sorry to hear pf this situation. When I started reading, I thought the same as you, "how could I NOT be there for her." It is the most selfless act you could provide. But then to hear her reaction would just have burned me to no end. She doesn't appear to appreciate it at all. Unbelievable.
I guess all you can do is try to be there for her and support her until no end. It is what you want to do and it is the right thing to do, even if she says she doesn't want it. i thin kshe really does. She is scared, and so would we be.
I'm sorry that this has gotten exponentially harder for you, but I think that you should be there for her no matter what she says. She has to be very scared and your support will help her more than anything, whether she admits it or not. She needs your support at this critical time and you need to be there for yourself too.
It's 4:30 am here and I am not too coherent anymore, so I hope that I have helped at least a little bit. Stick with your vows and please be there for her in this time of desperate need. It will help both of you immensely and will demonstrate that you truly do care, no matter what she thinks at the moment. I just can't believe that this is happening to you.
I am so sorry for this turn of events for you AG. On top of everything else, this is just unbelieveable. Hang in there man and stay strong. We are all pulling for you.
