I am not sure if either A or B are right. I tried a similar thing to B, and W just said I deserve to be happy with someone else. I do not think I felt any better after that. A you have already tried, and I do not think it will be any different the second time around.
Maybe just saying nothing and waiting for her to say or do something if she wants to.
I am not sure what you should do, but maybe coming up with a C would be better.
Maybe just letting go is best.
I hope you find what to say or not say that is will bring some peace of mind either way.
Good luck on your term papers.
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