That is tough call for you. I never exclude W for anything because I do not want to see me do the things that W has done to me if it is something big like a birthday, dinner, etc. I would not do this if living separately.
Your call on this one. I think is okay as Pookie suggested or to go without her.
ME-41 W-33 M-8 D-8 S-4 D 5/17/2010 www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1961097#Post1961097
