that's what i'm doing exactly. he expects me to file, oh heck no, he has to take responsibilty for his desire for divorce. i briefly ran down it takes a considerable amount of time to get divorced between time allowed for filing responses, mediaiton, etc. etc.
he didn't like that, so i said well if we agree to everything then it goes aLOT faster, so let me know when you want to sit down fill out the paperwork together, all available online, he's like yeah that's what i want the quicker the better.
so lets do it, i know there are better men out there, if h wants to surround himself with his buddies, go out drinking, watch strippers, whatever, go for it. I know that i am a great woman and unbelievable mother, i'm a professional in my career, own my own house, a veteran of 2 wars, so and so forth. the type of woman which it won't be a woman it will be a girl in her 20's that he will "get" will not have anything going for her,.
he wants the divorce, i'm living my life as i am single! it iwll catch up to him and he may be put off by it or be like oh she's not waiting for me anymore. when he sees the man i bring in my life he will be totally and completely insecure.
my h is never gonna be anything more then a high school drop out, won't be a citizen of the united states, will work every single day of his life, with no home ownership, always a renter, no security of retirment, nothing.
Me 39 H 30 d 18 previous marriage d 2.5 with H s 4.5months with H Seperation Nov09 july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline
