If your wife filed for d then you busted the a and she imeadely started seeing a new man is there any reason to give her the goodby speach. I just do not contact her except kid related things. It really makes no since to me to contact her and tell her she's free she filed for the d and we don't have contact I counterd sued for d and started a custody fight 10 days after discovering the a I ask her one time the night she dropped the d bomb on me about mc we have not discussed the r not one time I have not begged or pleaded. I did spy on her to catch her with him with my kids there. No longer do that. Is this detaching or the next time we speak and she gets off the subject of kids then do I give her the speech. She's living it up and I think she releases she's free just not sure but I know right now the less contact I have with her the better I like it. I think I will try the phone coaching next week to get someone who has a better understanding to give me some insight.
Last edited by 40andsadintexas; 08/22/1005:48 AM.
M40, W 37 M 11 1/2 y T 13 y D filed 5-18-10 S 5-29-10 OM1 discovered 6-5-10 Counter sued for d 6-16-10 OM2 discovered 8-10-10 OM3, OM4 4 kids 10, 7, & 3 D date 10-14-10 http://tiny.cc/mxzct
