Well, BD. We haven't started because he has been avoiding it. I waited a little for him to bring it up, but then I did, and he evaded and it hasn't come back up again.

It's really irritating to me. I'm trying to have patience and just chill. But I don't want to be around him if he doesn't want to make this work. So it's hard for me.

At the same time, he could be bipolar or just generally depressed, don't really know. So that's helping me have some grace.

I hope your H brings it up for you guys soon!