Pun

I am probably taking the least favored view...

And only you know your H the best.

I see nothing wrong in telling him you are standing for your M.

State it just like that.

You don't want a divorce.

You believe in your convictions regardless of what has happened.

Period.

.

You don't want HIM back.

You want a MARRIAGE back.

That ain't this (<<<<<southern vernacular that I speak)

Your strength is not giving in

Your strength is in what you want and

what you know.

Declare it!

It ain't his decision.

It's YOURS.

Or

It may be truegritter just a sayin'

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am