*Note to self: I had a special meeting with my IC on Friday, 7/30, and then skipped our regularly scheduled meeting on Monday, 8/2.
Friday, August 6: Had an unplanned date with someone from the Meetup group.
Saturday/Sunday (8/7-8/8): Mr. A came over again and we had an R talk. We were intimate once, but then he refused my later advances.
Monday, August 9: I saw my IC and we made my resolutions about how I would act with Mr. A. Key points: DO NOT answer the phone if he calls after I go to bed; DO accept if he invites me in advance on a real date; for all other situations, weigh my options and act with kindness, but keep my integrity.
Thursday, August 12: Mr. A called me three times. He finally left me a message saying he got a job and was very excited. I called him back and got his voicemail but told him I was happy for him.
