I would think if you presented it as exposure for the sake of their advice you may bode well. I exposed to my FMIL and she listened for a bit but was not willing to help in anyway with her son. We got into our only argument and even though I apologized, we didn't talk for two years. Are you ok with that outcome?
Kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory